Lots of Good Men is an imaginative and playful matchmaking card game designed for women of all ages. It serves as an effective icebreaker, conversation starter, and storytelling game, offering a delightful and whimsical experience while empowering women with a realistic perspective on dating.
The game is ideally played with 4-8 players but is versatile enough to accommodate anywhere from a single player to as many as 20 participants. It's a perfect fit for bridal showers, ladies’ night out events, or any gathering where fun games are enjoyed.
Karen Reed developed Lots of Good Men in 2009 after recognizing the deep desire many women have for marriage and the challenges they face in meeting the right partner.
Lots of Good Men is to women what fantasy football is to men. In the game, players embark on fantasy dates, get courted by prospective suitors, and await their "Mr. Right." The object of the game is to meet a mate and accept a marriage proposal. Unlike passively watching a romantic comedy or reading a romance novel, each player becomes the star of their own story.
During the game, players go on fantasy dates by drawing cards from six unique decks:
Players can decide to keep learning more about a suitor by drawing additional cards or reject the suitor and move on by returning him to the deck. This continues until all the Random Facts cards are drawn.
At the game’s finale, engaged players reveal their new fiancés to the group, sparking laughter, surprises, and plenty of memorable moments.
With over one million unique suitor combinations, the fun is truly in the cards. It’s always exciting to see which suitors are chosen and how the story unfolds!
Karen Reed is a Christian and a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother. She is also a game developer and self-published author with a passion for storytelling, romantic love, and meaningful connection. Originally from Brooklyn, New York, she now calls Memphis, Tennessee, home. Karen earned her bachelor’s degree from the University of Tennessee at Martin and has enjoyed a successful career in finance and real estate investing.
In 2021, Karen stepped into her creative era with the launch of Lots of Good Men, a matchmaking and storytelling card game for women of all ages designed to spark conversation, laughter, and intentional dialogue around love and relationships. She later expanded the project with her companion book, Lots of Good Men: Meeting and Marrying a Good Man, which offers practical wisdom and encouragement for women seeking healthy, God-centered relationships.
Currently, Karen is a graduate student at Memphis Theological Seminary, pursuing a master’s degree in Christian ministry with a specialization in Spiritual Direction. Through her studies, writing, and game design, she is committed to sharing a message of love, empowerment, and faith, helping women build confidence, deepen discernment, and cultivate lasting, purpose-filled relationships.
This insightful book explores the essential considerations every woman should reflect on before saying "I do." From understanding the marriage contract to evaluating their own lifestyle and identifying the qualities of a compatible partner, Lots of Good Men: Meeting and Marrying a Good Man empowers readers to make informed decisions about love and commitment. Author Karen Reed writes with the warmth and honesty of a trusted aunt or close friend who has been there. Her advice is heartfelt, relatable, and designed to help you navigate the journey without falling into common pitfalls. Throughout the book, Karen shares personal anecdotes and helpful resources, adding depth and authenticity to her guidance. Packed with practical advice and thought-provoking insights, this book is a must-read for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of relationships and build a strong foundation for a lasting marriage.